There is some kind of thing that someone else place does not have on anybody body; Each nerve is not on anybody body more acute than others, and only the association of friendship and each other help ability can make all people can the boy or girl friend that brightly, many sided ground sees quiet place.
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Person cannot live in solitude. Everybody needs everyday from information is obtained over there other, study the experience of other and intelligence, and communicate harmonious, collaboration completes the work, so the education of human truck capacity is very necessary.
The mother of a when I know little boy says painfully: "The body is bad when the son is young, his father works outerly again, I feel this child is quite poor, at every turn I by him, down him, but he now already 10 years old, the body is very good also, but he does not know to feel distressed not only I, often still give me stir up trouble, not be to followed a classmate to fight, bunt namely teacher, do so that I do not get quiet. Do so that I do not get quiet..
When this mother is rearing the child, gave the child may self-conscious or not self-consciously nurturance " egocentric creed " , namely too cross ego, self-righteous, ignore the feeling of other. Yaolanda Wudaneida points out children psychologist: "Not be meet occurrence only son on all children bodies female ask for integratedly. But, if there is to fasten bootlace to him beside the child, wear the dress to him, solve the attentive mother of all problems for him, so the child matures very hard in emotional respect rise. Parents should love the child, protection child, but cannot excessive. Should let the child know, be not on the world have him himself only. " according to the United States industrial university is opposite Carnegie a case of 10 thousand person undertake analytic study to discover: As a result of,the succeed person of 15% is skilled, clever with working ability strong, because have good truck capacity,the succeed person of 85% basically is. As social development, the function of human association appears important even more, parents must value the education of pair of child truck capacity, make the child gets used to social development better.
Good truck capacity is the base that establishs good and human relationship and premise, it is helpful for the healthy progress of person psychology, the development of the self-awareness that is helpful for a person and perfect, be helpful for a person overcoming the success of difficult, stimulative career, realize life value.
How to let child society and person get along, interact with the person, foster child viability, this is parents' very important one lesson. The child in the city is a singleton almost female, they as a child easy by coddle since childhood, go up to be put generally in the characteristic with high ego, capricious move personally. They live for a long time in the world of reinforced concrete again, lack the opportunity that communicates with nature, be lacked especially and companionate people the feeling that runs in nature, do not experience the information that comes from nature and joy. Their collective feeling and group spirit are some weaker, the child that can compare a country is stronger to domestic dependence, add, a lot of things need not oneself go worrying about, parental all monopolizes replace, will make a lot of children lose the chance that interacts with the person so. Still have the modern facility such as TV, DVD, computer, the child need not go a door, can killtime. TV looks morer, lack human association skill more. When because be in,watching TV, the person always accepts information passively, the person's fancy and initiative get very big limitation. And in the development process in the person, children needs to be contacted with the line of sight of other, need the body contact with other and language communication, need fashions distinctive image actively in brains, need experiences the effect that he acts. But TV gives these chances however stripped. That is to say: The chance that experiences touch, action, dialog to wait decreased.
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