As people job and life rhythm accelerate ceaselessly, domesticity began to appear a few change, main show has the tendency with optional trend in trifling matters of everyday life. Some parents lack civilized courtesy in social association, the habit tells vulgar language bad language to scruple without place; In the before the child face in the family, close language is spoken between husband and wife, do close movement to also scruple without place, can this make the child healthy in the environment of healthy grace how grow? Especially some of parent also is met to certain indisposition of the child blurt out mutter, beat and scold the child even, this can produce very great harm to the child's proper pride, serious when can make the child decreases to the parent's dependence, reduce the emotional communication between mother and daughter of father and son thereby, make suffocate suffocate of development of child mental health.
So, the educational sex that parents wants to stress a language to child conversation ten million encourages a gender, and cannot harm somewhat to its absolutely, ten million cannot say to the child so: "You made a person irritated die really! " " everything what did not forget what I do is for you! " " I had said not to run in disorder how many times to you! " " why your unlike acute hearing acute hearing obedient in that way? " " you never listen to me to speak! " etc. Should knowing optional language is to should pay cost to bear sequential.
× 1. "You made a person irritated die really " ×
Means of ◎ similar expression
"You spilled beverage lane again, won't you take a glass well? You how so stupid? You how so stupid??
What can such ◎ language cause to harm to the child?
These meetings bring abashed sense to them, the child still can is fear of accordingly be punished, the children before wanting to know school age appears all sorts of states are common thing, must remember, children do not want such doing intentionally.
＃ little hint
A lot of parents overlook this fact very easily, because of children these " not good " behavior always makes them rusty. But, when you speak such word to the child, what what you convey is empty only blame, and oversight the matter that the child can become so. Cry greatly to the child when you: "How are you jumped over greatly more not obedient " when, what what you pay close attention to is him only experience
× 2. "Did not forget, everything what what I do is for you! " ×
Means of ◎ similar expression
"I come off work to come back to do give you deliciously, you still do not eat! You still do not eat!!
"Abandoned how many thing because of us! "Abandoned how many thing because of us!!
What can such ◎ language cause to harm to the child?
Your child asks to be born without oneself, he need not feel negative guilt for his existence. You are in those who make he feels himself is elementary, redundant with good for nothing, your speech still is being alluded, he cannot leave you.
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