Plato ever was in " Utopia " one book middle finger goes out, "Open a good head to doing everything it is the most important, especially those still are in youthful the thing with puerile phase, when because be individual character at this moment,be being formed, the impression that leaves right now also is the deepest... " . Yalishiduode also has said, "The good convention that forms when childhood can change lifetime. " such " begin impression " , " childhood is used to " , be in those who advocate lifelong education, compose to build study to change a society today, want to accept the formal education that needs to accept most above all namely. The article is opposite with respect to oneself only the reflection of formal education issue makes the family the brief summary of one shallow.
One, Chong Li weighs a ceremony to having very important sense:
"Respectable heart, ceremony also. " (Mencius) " appearance " , point to form, standard. Chong Li weighs a ceremony, at all times and in all over the world all like that. Here " ceremony " , those who point to is the ceremony that abides by what be used to as a result of custom in social life and form jointly for everybody, it is proper social standard and ethic be reflected mediumly in social life and mirror.
4 kinds of ethics that our country ancient time encourages -- " ceremony justice sense of honor " , "Chong Li " put in the first, just be travel justice, clean-fingered ever since, know shame. "Ceremony " , hold together is worn social order, coordinating human relation, "Became Chinese civilization almost symbolize and indicate, be in China especially archaic society, the judge level that the ceremony is given to be social life and rudder " ① . Old friend is inurbane not unripe, the thing is inurbane won't do, the country is inurbane restless. " (" a surname child · cultivate one's morality piece " ) people lives in the ceremony, contented in the ceremony, perfect in the ceremony also.
Hesperian is very heavy also ceremony, "Regard the introductory course that moral character teachs as formal education all along, the model in its ideal is gent " . They are a formal training wait for in light of the foundation that regards a person as entire moral character, think " in us in the society of this intercommunicate, the person with a lot of surroundings and different habits and customs needs to have unified formal regulation, serve as a tool with them, in order to create a good society human relation " ② .
Current society is the society that opens highly, also be the society that high cooperation changes. Any onefold individual must with other individual or group association, collaboration. Any not courtesy and uncivilized behavior make life be disgusted with meets with not only the person is disgustful, helpless at establishing the human relationship with the friendly and orderly, harmonious health between common people, and still be sure " jeopardize current society badly the collaboration of each estate and solidarity " . A foreign teacher is this to ever pointed out clearly, "Civilized courtesy is extremely helpful to the success of individual career. Big business trades or love often is begin from table " ③ . Interpreter home Mr Fu Lei is in our country's famous literature art same meaning also was conveyed in a letter of his son Fu Cong. He is writing so: "The circle that you come and go especially lettered circle, beard of every act Wu is particularly advertent. To polite person, or it is a division commander, or it is old people, the hand when conversation wants perpendicular, the person should stand straight. You this kind of custom became a custom, have profit all one's life. " ④
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