What kind of mom does the child like most? In teaching child course, what should mom notice most again? An investigation that announces yesterday shows: "Compulsive model " , " statement form " mom is welcome least of all, and the friend that becomes mutual respect, understanding, get mother child general self-identity.
This the name is " surely win new standard of guest example mammy " investigation, 8 big cities wait in Wuhan, Nanjing, Chongqing, extended 50 thousand questionnaire, investigate a mother child in all 20 thousand much person. The result shows, the mom that the child likes most is to resemble a friend same him understanding, him care; And mother people good cause, also be to be able to become the child's closest friend.
Respectively nearly 6 call a collective aspirations with nearly half child into the mother: "Banzai of esteem, understanding! " contrast with this, nearly 3 become mother think, beat and scold the child, disaccord child to communicate at every turn, not be good mom; Nearly 4 express into the child, "Compulsive model " , " statement form " mom is undesirable.
In the investigation of Wuhan, of green hill suffer visit maternal poplar lady to think, traditional in the past " elder " figure is already incommensurate today's mother child relation, "I am trying to become the child's friend, is not commanding, be in charge of him at any time. Be in charge of him at any time..
Wu Mei says 7 years old of little boys that live in 10 thousand loose garden, she likes mother for company to she learns or play game, "Tender and attentive, take care of family, willingly bear the burden of hard works " , this is her the evaluation to mom. Wu Mei says, oneself are proud to have such mother.
Educational expert thinks, build a kind of equality and mutual valued with the child new-style relation, it is to improve a mother child the means with best relation. This one viewpoint got sufferring seeking unanimous approval of mom.
(Hunan day Metropolis Daily)
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